It's a known fact that people with vulvas can have orgasms over and over again during sex. But what about multiple orgasms for people with penises? Turns out, yes, men can have multiple orgasms. Here's how it works. Both people with penises and people with vulvas can have multiple orgasms without a refractory period, confirms AASECT-certified sex therapist Susan W. Wenzel, M. She adds: "And apparently, male multiple orgasms come in two flavors: 'sporadic' multiple orgasms with a few or more minutes in between, and 'condensed' multiple orgasms, in which there are bursts of two to four orgasms within a few seconds to a few minutes. Although orgasm and ejaculation often tend to "come" together pun intended , they're actually independent physiological events, Wise notes.
The Key to Multiple Male Orgasms: Delaying Ejaculation
Is it possible for men to have multiple orgasms?
By delaying or avoiding ejaculation while allowing the orgasmic contractions and associated feelings of pleasure and release to overtake your body, you can experience successive orgasms on your own or with a partner. While most orgasms are accompanied by ejaculation, orgasm and ejaculation are considered distinct processes despite the fact that most men find that they occur simultaneously. Orgasm refers to the peak experience of sexual pleasure marked by gratifying contractions and a sense of satisfying sexual release though this definition will vary from person to person. When the male orgasm occurs in conjunction with ejaculation, you experience two sets of contractions:. This disallows the flow of urine out of the body and stops semen from entering the bladder. If this occurs, the semen flows back into the bladder instead of being expelled. You may still experience the contractions, pleasure, and release associated with orgasm without ejaculating.
How to have multiple orgasms as a man:
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