Before introducing the idea of chastity to your loved one you need to realise that the journey into chastity should be one of mutual benefits and not just to simply satisfy your own fantasy of being dominated. Chastity can bring something new and very exciting to your sexual repertoire which can extend into every day situations other than just the bedroom. But it is essential that you introduce your chastity desires in a way which will appeal to your wife, girlfriend, or lover. It must not be about you forcing, pushing or cohersing the idea to have your own fetish needs met. Before you can expect your wife or girlfriend to understand your chastity fetish, desires and fantasies you should first think about yourself and define your own understanding of your needs. This may seem an obvious statement, but you need to be prepared for questions your lover may pose, to know what your response may be, and to personally fully understand the difference between your desires or fantasies and practical realities.
Introducing your Partner to Keyholding
Over the years, she has taken total control in the bedroom—we only have sex when she is in the mood, when she brings it up and in the manner she wants—I have no say. She also took control over all our finances and I transferred all assets to her name only to make her feel extra secure that Id never leave her for any reason. She caged my cock around 3 years ago—first with a CB and then when my hardon broke the plastic seam, we switched to a Jailbird which keeps me very small and snug. When her pussy gets too sensitive from orgasms, she turns onto her tummy and I worship her perfect ass until she decides to go to sleep. When we have guests over for a large barbecue or other meal, she makes it clear that I cooked everything and stays at the table to chat with her friends as I serve and clear. I then do the dishes and make the kitchen spotless again as Nina enjoys her socializing. She told the girls that I was very submissive and that she makes me wear a chastity cage to ensure an agreeable attitude, because it was orgasms that make men so grumpy and quarrelsome. Betty, Sara and Tina knew nothing about it, so Nina explained and sent them some Internet websites to learn about it. One Friday night, Nina told me the girls were coming over for drinks.
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Exploring Male Chastity Lifestyle
Real Life examples of successful and unsuccessful ways of introducing your wife or girlfriend to keyholding:. Lucky - 5th August I have had interest in chastity for a long time and even made my own "bird cage", which I have used without my wife's knowledge i. Last time she was away for 5 days I used the cage and decided, very nervous about her reactions, to hand her the keys when she returned. She found the whole thing rather strange she is very vanilla but agreed to take the keys as she could see how much it meant to me. We had great sex ending with my release. But she still was very uncertain of my expectations as she really doesn't like to be the dominant. I have also used the web extensively to watch pictures and stories of all sorts of Femdom and have been trying pushing her into dominating me, and actually this has merely been pushing my sexual desires further away from hers. Showing her different pictures has made her even more reluctant because she can't see herself or me in these situations which she finds repulsive. Anyway, I was of course extremely excited about her taking the keys so a few days after, I put the cage on again.
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